I am a psychologist and systemic therapist based in Amsterdam, working with adults and couples who are experiencing emotional, relational, and life-transition challenges. My work is especially focused on helping people understand the patterns that keep them stuck within themselves, in their relationships, and in the wider systems they are part of.I hold a BSc in Psychology and an MSc in Clinical Psychology from the University of Groningen, which I completed in 2018.
Alongside my academic training, I completed a four-year professional training in Systemic and Family Therapy between 2020 and 2024, deepening my understanding of how relationships, family dynamics, attachment patterns, and context shape emotional well-being. I have also completed additional training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, including the EFCT Externship through ICEEFT the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy with James Furrow and Teri Murphy, as well as training in Schema Therapy Essentials through the Schema Therapy School, UK. Earlier in my professional development, I completed a two-year training in coaching and counseling at the Academy for Coaching and Counseling in Amstelveen, which continues to inform the collaborative and reflective nature of my work. I am registered with the Netherlands Institute of Psychologists, NIP and the Dutch Association for Relationship and Family Therapy (NVRG).
Over the past years, I have worked with individuals, couples, and families from diverse cultural backgrounds, including many international clients and expats living in the Netherlands and abroad.
My work is warm, collaborative, and grounded in careful attention to each person’s story and relational context. I aim to offer a space where clients can slow down, make sense of what they are experiencing, and begin to understand the patterns that shape their inner world and relationships. From there, therapy can support more clarity, compassion, and choice.
Originally from Romania, I moved to the Netherlands in 2013. Living and building a life in another country has given me a personal understanding of the complexities that can arise when navigating identity, belonging, relationships, and cultural differences.This experience often informs my work with international clients who are adjusting to life in a new environment.
Bianca the therapist is the same as Bianca the human. During our therapy sessions, we talk on the same level. I am here not only to empower you to manage life’s challenges in a healthy manner, but also to model a secure attachment.
You might first ask me for one specific type of help and then, through conversation, we might discover that you actually need something else from me. I am always keen to explore your true needs, right from the beginning. We will then set goals together, to make sure we keep on track and use your time and energy wisely.
I am happy to give you the space to open up whenever you are ready. You can share what you feel comfortable with in ourour first consultation call or ask questions.
This means that we can talk in depth about your circumstances, patterns of behaviour and relationships. It is a practical and explorative approach, which helps us find viable solutions. I also integrate elements of systemic therapy, schema therapy, mindfulness and emotionally-focused therapy (EFT) into my therapeutic approach, depending on my clients’ specific situation.
I am Romanian and have been an expat in the Netherlands myself since 2013. If you’re looking for someone who can relate to this side of your identity, or if you prefer talking in Romanian, I’m your person.
My first job, before anything else, is to offer you a safe and warm environment. Acceptance, respect and trust are vital for working through meaningful personal topics.
